Not saying what you mean
Jan. 6th, 2014 03:42 pmOccasionally I've heard people talk about miscommunication that can occur when westerners do business with eastern cultures. This revolves around an eastern concept of politeness. Easterners will avoid saying "no" or directly disagreeing with someone, not because they agree but because they want to avoid rudeness. Westerners think they are too straightforward for that sort of thing. Er, perhaps not. Here's a 15 point guide to what people really mean. Well, in the UK, at least.
If you know the phrase "Up to a point, Lord Copper" then you'll know what I'm talking about. If you don't, never mind, but it's from a book by Evelyn Waugh (and Evelyn was a chap).
If you know the phrase "Up to a point, Lord Copper" then you'll know what I'm talking about. If you don't, never mind, but it's from a book by Evelyn Waugh (and Evelyn was a chap).